hopeless romantic again?

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before, i used to label myself as a hopeless romantic. i was, literally, a hopeless romantic. i cry whenever i see touching movie scenes; i get angry when there’s a third party, and most especially, i believed that love works for everybody, including myself. i fancy a love story like the ones i read in romance novels, not realizing that they’re just fictional, something created and imagined by a person like myself..

after our break up, i was determined to change myself. to throw away everything that i have believed in. to not believe in love. to change myself from the inside. to be willing to play with the feelings of others, just like what happened to me. but i guess i’m just not that kind of person. i never realized that i just can’t change myself because i am at my lowest situation. i’ve witnessed different people trying to deal with love and love-problems. some deals with it better that others. and i can say that i have successfully dealt with mine since i can’t find myself crying at night anymore.

it’s the first time today, ever since the break up that i felt the romance alive in me again. i don’t think that i was right in saying that all the love in me disappeared after that event. i guess it was just overshadowed by loneliness. i realized, as i was watching Bud Brothers Series with my sister that i was still the same mara as before- a hopeless romantic; a girl who feels love working for others, but this time, it may not include her- but she’s still happy. i always find enough reasons to be happy.

i am not sure if i will be satisfied with this realization, but i know it wouldn’t matter. i know love works differently for different people. besides, i’m not the type of person who dwells forever on the bad or unfortunate things that has happened to me. there were a lot, actually, so it’s just a matter of being used to it. i wouldn’t let it affect my life. i just have to accept it and deal with the moving on part as best as i can. 
Love will find its way to me and it pays to wait…
( i just love it when i’m my usual optimistic self..hehe)